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LUNA EN EEN JUKAI-CEREMONIE

Of ik aanwezig wilde zijn bij de jukai-ceremonie van Marloes. Een ceremonie waarbij zij de Boeddhistisch leefregels én een boeddhistische naam zou ontvangen. Via haar log en tijdens onze gesprekken had ik al maanden een beetje mee kunnen leven naar deze belangrijke dag voor haar, dus de daadwerkelijke ceremonie bijwonen leek mij erg bijzonder. Dus zo zat ik gisteravond op een stoeltje in een zaaltje ergens in Utrecht. En toen Zen-leraar Nico Tydeman, toch niet de minste op Zen-gebied, de ruimte binnenkwam was het eerste wat ik dacht; wat een klein mannetje! En dat kleine mannetje bleef Marloes de hele ceremonie vragen om te buigen. Heel diep te buigen. Buigen voor Boeddha, buigen voor Dharma, buigen voor Sangha. En Marloes boog diep. Heel diep. Ik kreeg al spierpijn van het kijken naar haar diepe buigen. En tussen het buigen door werden de leefregels en nog wat andere belangrijke Boeddhistische zinnetjes gereciteerd: “Wijds is het kleed van bevrijding / Een vormloos veld van mededogen / Ik draag de leer van de Boeddha.” “Hoe talloos de levende wezens ook zijn, ik beloof ze allen te bevrijden.” Poe. Ik vond het allemaal iets te veel van het goede. Of misschien snapte ik er gewoon heel weinig van. Het waren holle frasen voor mij. Ik weet weinig van ‘Boeddha’ en niets van ‘Dharma’ of ‘Sangha’. Het voelde te ceremonieel. Pas toen Zen-leraar Nico Tydeman voor mijn gevoel ‘zonder de vastomlijnde regels van de ceremonie’ ging praten, gewoon ging praten zonder de woorden ‘Boeddha’, ‘Dharma’ of ‘Sangha’ te gebruiken, gewoon sprak tot Marloes, toen werd ik geraakt. Hij sprak niet over het streng navolgen van de Boeddhistisch leefregels, maar juist over het breken daarvan. Dat dat helemaal niet erg was. Toen voelde ik ineens dat daar een hele wijze man op een kussentje zat. Een klein ielig mannetje, maar een groot man. Na de ceremonie liep ik met Zen-leraar Nico Tydeman en 2 van zijn leerlingen terug naar het Centraal Station. “Wat heb je eigenlijk veel spullen bij je”, merkte leerling P. op toen hij Zen-leraar Nico met 2 enorme tassen zag sjouwen. “Allemaal ballast, geestelijke ballast”, grapte Nico, “allemaal gebakken lucht.” En toen was ik helemaal onder de indruk.

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27 reacties

  1. Marloes schreef:

    LOL :o)
    Ik vond het geweldig dat je erbij was!

  2. Kaat schreef:

    Toevallig heb ik net een Buddha gekocht voor een vriendin die het moeilijk heeft. Het Buddhisme is denk ik de mooiste levenswijze die er is.

  3. Johannet schreef:

    Het is handiger om een Boeddha te huren, kopen brengt ongeluk.
    Op “Boeddha-dag” (Thailand) mag je geen alcohol drinken, tenminste… als je een baco neemt ziet boeddha de alcohol niet, dan is het niet zo erg.

  4. Ellen schreef:

    *zucht*…….Ik vind het zeer mysterieus, het boedhisme.

  5. La Mauresque schreef:

    La Lune,

    Tu ne comprend rien? Le bouddhisme??
    Tu ne vois pas la lumière ou le nirvana?
    C’est là où je vous attends, Bouddha dis-je.
    Mais tu est un esprit troubler? La manie??
    Entre chien et loup et journée à la pleine lune. Dans la schizophrénia virtuellement j’attends!

  6. Saskia schreef:

    Mooi, dat je daar bij mocht zijn! Vind net als Kaat het Boeddhisme een prachtige levenswijze.

    @ Johannet: voor jezelf kopen brengt ongeluk, voor een ander niet! Hoewel….toen ik vorig jaar een vriendin een boeddha beeld gaf, werd ze prompt ontslagen. Maar daar kwamen uiteindelijk toch goede dingen uit.

  7. eliane schreef:

    Mijn hemel, niet gij ook al….

  8. MirjaM schreef:

    ik kan goed begrijpen dat je pas geraakt werd door normaal gepraat, ik snap al die moeilijke zinnen ook niet! ik vind het altijd bijzonder hoor, hoe iemand zo voor iets kan gaan!

  9. helena schreef:

    Heee, ik ga volgende week met iemand mee. Ik moet heel erg wennen aan het idee, maar zij is er vreselijk gelukkig mee.
    Ze heeft me beloofd dat ze hier niet net zo snel vanaf zal stappen als de Kabbala, het Hindoeisme en andere bevliegingen. Hopelijk komt het wel goed!

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